The writing in this series is some of the best I have seen on TV, and this episode was no exception. I personally loved the juxtaposition of storylines this week. Sister Catherine (played by Molly Vevers) prepares to become a bride for Jesus, as she takes her vows as a novitiate. Meanwhile, Midwife Nancy Corrigan (played by Megan Cusack) prepares to become a bride to her fiancé Roger. What sweet, and completely different, weddings both women had…. 

Nancy’s birth, as chaotic as it seemed in the back of an ambulance, was the perfect birth for her. When Nancy described it as different from her first birth because “this time I was with people I love…” it opened a floodgate of memories for me of so many births wherein I’ve been so incredibly honored to be present. Births where I have been with patients I loved. 

As midwives, we share such an intimate relationship with our patients – we form bonds that are intense, special, and lifelong. I was reminded of that a few weeks ago as I chatted with a patient about her birth. She said, “I’ll never forget you; you’ll probably forget me because you have lots of births, but I’ll never forget you.” 

No, my dear, I will not forget you or the honor it was for me to care for you in that intimate space of your birth. It has always been, and will always be, a sacred responsibility and honor for me just to be there with you. 

Another interesting juxtaposition in this episode was Nancy’s and Paula’s births – Paula the incredibly young girl whose parents shipped her off to a girl’s home for the pregnancy and birth. While Nancy’s birth was hectic and rapid, she wasn’t terrified of birth like sweet, young Paula was. Everyone who has spent any time around birth has been there with Paula, where every terrified scream rips at your heart. When your attempt at comforting words is met with wide eyes filled with horror and pain. It’s something you won’t ever forget. 

I also personally loved the storyline of Reggie’s broken vase that was repaired in the ancient art of Kintsugi, meaning “golden joinery.” In this art form, broken ceramic objects are carefully pieced together with gold powder and lacquer. The product isn’t an attempt to hide the flaws from the damage, but to emphasize the beauty that can come from the damage by filling the imperfections with gold. Very often the piece ends up being so much lovelier than it was in its original form. 

Kintsugi is much more than an art form, though. It is a life philosophy, recognizing that we are all broken at times in our lives. As we navigate life's challenges, our ability to see beauty amidst our brokenness and scarring means everything to how we make this journey of life. 

Peace and blessings to you on your own journey. Until next season….